I remember listening to a Bill Cosby comedy sketch as a kid. His wife was having a baby, and Bill’s job was cheerleader: “Push it out. Shove it out. Way out!”  Gentlemen, our roles in the delivery room have changed during the last thirty years. We are no longer cheerleaders, merely standing on the sidelines of birth, rooting for Mom to do her best. There’s a reason we’re called coaches, guys. In this game, we’re right there on the field with Mom. We prep our star athlete. We help devise the plays.

We’ve all heard about faking orgasm. Forty-eight percent of American women do it, says a 2004 ABC News poll and Slate magazine’s 2000 orgasm survey raises that to 72 percent. But what about faking sexual closeness and intimacy? This has never been surveyed, but it’s a complaint I hear from countless women who come to therapy to talk about disappointment with their boyfriends and husbands.

If you are like most married people, you work, take care of your children, worry about paying your bills and staying healthy, and spend a lot of your “free time” on laundry, grocery shopping and home maintenance. Working on your marriage and strengthening your bond as a couple may not even make your to-do list.

Instant healing is an idea whose time is now. It is a growing wave of understanding that suggests you and Source of All Life are One and, you co-create your life together. Science and Spirituality finally agree! Now you can be your own scientist and test the truth your self.